I think bazz may have something there.
I have never been comfortable around women and they find that creepy, it's not good.
It really is about self-esteem, love yourself.
Yeah right, easy to say huh.
Eh, I love myself. Doesn't help much because I don't have bravado and don't show myself off in public.
Perhaps I treat women a little TOO comfortably, and they also find that creepy.