how to attract women

[Crowley K. Jarvis]

I think bazz may have something there.
I have never been comfortable around women and they find that creepy, it's not good.

It really is about self-esteem, love yourself.
Yeah right, easy to say huh.

Eh, I love myself. Doesn't help much because I don't have bravado and don't show myself off in public.

Perhaps I treat women a little TOO comfortably, and they also find that creepy.

[dither]

I once over-heard a conversation between two young women regarding the boy-friend of one of them.
It went something like this,,,

" Yeah, he's an arrogant bastard, i love him".

Conclusion;
Girls love cars, money and arrogant bastards.
So the good guys really are losers.

[Crowley K. Jarvis]

I once over-heard a conversation between two young women regarding the boy-friend of one of them.
It went something like this,,,

" Yeah, he's an arrogant bastard, i love him".

Conclusion;
Girls love cars, money and arrogant bastards.
So the good guys really are losers.

The closest I come is a strong tendency to be narcissistic. They seem to think it's cute.

-shrug-

I don't have money so I'm hoping that gets me somewhere.

[dither]

Maybe you should try dismissive and downright rude.
But what do i know?

[Patrick]

If you're afraid of being human around a woman, you may as well never talk to one. Just accept you're going to make mistakes; it's a lot more endearing than being robotic and clinical, which, if accomplished, will just make you look like a psychopath. Women know by now that we're not very good (especially the British) at initiating anything. The fact you managed to introduce yourself without falling over is a minor miracle, boys, so give yourself a pat on the back for being a boss and squirreling out that handshake and "hello".

When I was a spotty teen my voice broke in the middle of talking to a popular girl, so I laughed and said, "Sorry, that's the other one trying to come out." I was called a legend, opposed to being bullied for the rest of my life.

If it's going badly, just keep telling yourself it only takes a second in extra time *groan but lol*. However you do it, just make her laugh once, at some point.

[dither]

Patrick,
you are right of course.
I've just grown very bitter and resentful of my failings with old age.

The one thing that i would say is BOYS, work it out cos if you don't your lives will be hell.

If you find a girl attractive you just have to tell her. I just couldn't do that.

[Patrick]

Patrick,
you are right of course.
I've just grown very bitter and resentful of my failings with old age.

The one thing that i would say is BOYS, work it out cos if you don't your lives will be hell.

If you find a girl attractive you just have to tell her. I just couldn't do that.

This is a much more sensible approach than arrogance. It takes humility to tell a girl you're fond of her. Be gentle, be kind, laugh at yourself and life. You'll have something about you if you can do that. And don't waste your time on the self-love rubbish. Just fill your life with loving others; you'll leave the least amount of room as you can for self-dismissal.

[dither]

And that Patrick is why i failed, miserably.

Guys,
take heed.

[bazz cargo]

FYI
There was an experiment carried out on UKTV. A hunk with a sports car v a regular guy with a puppy. The Puppy won.

Take a dog for a walk and make a fuss of other walker's dogs. Don't be biased with genders, a lot of men have sisters.

[Olly Buckle]

Join a computer class, they will almost all be female, men would never admit ignorance in such a sphere. During the coffee breaks listen and nod agreement, ask questions sometimes, but never correct them; in other words treat them like women treat men they fancy, they won't know what's happening.