how to attract women - Page 11


Page 11 of 172 FirstFirst ... 3456789101112131415161718192161111 ... LastLast
Results 101 to 110 of 1717

Thread: how to attract women

  1. #101
    Quote Originally Posted by dither View Post
    I think bazz may have something there.
    I have never been comfortable around women and they find that creepy, it's not good.

    It really is about self-esteem, love yourself.
    Yeah right, easy to say huh.
    Eh, I love myself. Doesn't help much because I don't have bravado and don't show myself off in public.

    Perhaps I treat women a little TOO comfortably, and they also find that creepy.
    Need advice? Or just some cheering up? PM.
    Or bug me on Skype. Any time I'm online.

    'I prefer to exist as a duality. Living alone is boring.'
    Crowley Karterson Jarvis

    ╙The Golden Crowl
    梟金烏

  2. #102
    Member dither's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2014
    Location
    on the fence
    Posts
    3,812
    Blog Entries
    142
    I once over-heard a conversation between two young women regarding the boy-friend of one of them.
    It went something like this,,,

    " Yeah, he's an arrogant bastard, i love him".

    Conclusion;
    Girls love cars, money and arrogant bastards.
    So the good guys really are losers.
    If i post a comment on a "WIP", LOOK! I'm a reader that's all, and i can only tell how i feel, as a READER, giving/offering feedback. Hoping to learn and grow here. So please, tell me where i'm going wrong.

    Me? I'm just a fly on the wall.

    Look! I'm trying, okay?

    One can but dream, if only i had dared.

    "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is an attribute of the strong" Mahatma Gandhi.
    Alas, i am weak.

    I must find a way to Eastbourne and i so wish that i could dance.

  3. #103
    Quote Originally Posted by dither View Post
    I once over-heard a conversation between two young women regarding the boy-friend of one of them.
    It went something like this,,,

    " Yeah, he's an arrogant bastard, i love him".

    Conclusion;
    Girls love cars, money and arrogant bastards.
    So the good guys really are losers.
    The closest I come is a strong tendency to be narcissistic. They seem to think it's cute.

    -shrug-

    I don't have money so I'm hoping that gets me somewhere.
    Need advice? Or just some cheering up? PM.
    Or bug me on Skype. Any time I'm online.

    'I prefer to exist as a duality. Living alone is boring.'
    Crowley Karterson Jarvis

    ╙The Golden Crowl
    梟金烏

  4. #104
    Member dither's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2014
    Location
    on the fence
    Posts
    3,812
    Blog Entries
    142
    Maybe you should try dismissive and downright rude.
    But what do i know?
    If i post a comment on a "WIP", LOOK! I'm a reader that's all, and i can only tell how i feel, as a READER, giving/offering feedback. Hoping to learn and grow here. So please, tell me where i'm going wrong.

    Me? I'm just a fly on the wall.

    Look! I'm trying, okay?

    One can but dream, if only i had dared.

    "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is an attribute of the strong" Mahatma Gandhi.
    Alas, i am weak.

    I must find a way to Eastbourne and i so wish that i could dance.

  5. #105
    If you're afraid of being human around a woman, you may as well never talk to one. Just accept you're going to make mistakes; it's a lot more endearing than being robotic and clinical, which, if accomplished, will just make you look like a psychopath. Women know by now that we're not very good (especially the British) at initiating anything. The fact you managed to introduce yourself without falling over is a minor miracle, boys, so give yourself a pat on the back for being a boss and squirreling out that handshake and "hello".

    When I was a spotty teen my voice broke in the middle of talking to a popular girl, so I laughed and said, "Sorry, that's the other one trying to come out." I was called a legend, opposed to being bullied for the rest of my life.

    If it's going badly, just keep telling yourself it only takes a second in extra time *groan but lol*. However you do it, just make her laugh once, at some point.


  6. #106
    Member dither's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2014
    Location
    on the fence
    Posts
    3,812
    Blog Entries
    142
    Patrick,
    you are right of course.
    I've just grown very bitter and resentful of my failings with old age.

    The one thing that i would say is BOYS, work it out cos if you don't your lives will be hell.

    If you find a girl attractive you just have to tell her. I just couldn't do that.
    If i post a comment on a "WIP", LOOK! I'm a reader that's all, and i can only tell how i feel, as a READER, giving/offering feedback. Hoping to learn and grow here. So please, tell me where i'm going wrong.

    Me? I'm just a fly on the wall.

    Look! I'm trying, okay?

    One can but dream, if only i had dared.

    "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is an attribute of the strong" Mahatma Gandhi.
    Alas, i am weak.

    I must find a way to Eastbourne and i so wish that i could dance.

  7. #107
    Quote Originally Posted by dither View Post
    Patrick,
    you are right of course.
    I've just grown very bitter and resentful of my failings with old age.

    The one thing that i would say is BOYS, work it out cos if you don't your lives will be hell.

    If you find a girl attractive you just have to tell her. I just couldn't do that.
    This is a much more sensible approach than arrogance. It takes humility to tell a girl you're fond of her. Be gentle, be kind, laugh at yourself and life. You'll have something about you if you can do that. And don't waste your time on the self-love rubbish. Just fill your life with loving others; you'll leave the least amount of room as you can for self-dismissal.


  8. #108
    Member dither's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2014
    Location
    on the fence
    Posts
    3,812
    Blog Entries
    142
    And that Patrick is why i failed, miserably.

    Guys,
    take heed.
    If i post a comment on a "WIP", LOOK! I'm a reader that's all, and i can only tell how i feel, as a READER, giving/offering feedback. Hoping to learn and grow here. So please, tell me where i'm going wrong.

    Me? I'm just a fly on the wall.

    Look! I'm trying, okay?

    One can but dream, if only i had dared.

    "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is an attribute of the strong" Mahatma Gandhi.
    Alas, i am weak.

    I must find a way to Eastbourne and i so wish that i could dance.

  9. #109
    FYI
    There was an experiment carried out on UKTV. A hunk with a sports car v a regular guy with a puppy. The Puppy won.

    Take a dog for a walk and make a fuss of other walker's dogs. Don't be biased with genders, a lot of men have sisters.

  10. #110
    Join a computer class, they will almost all be female, men would never admit ignorance in such a sphere. During the coffee breaks listen and nod agreement, ask questions sometimes, but never correct them; in other words treat them like women treat men they fancy, they won't know what's happening.
    A new story

    I finally got 'A Family Business' recorded and loaded, all 37 mins of it, much longer than any I have done before.
    Hidden Content

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
This website uses cookies
We use cookies to store session information to facilitate remembering your login information, to allow you to save website preferences, to personalise content and ads, to provide social media features and to analyse our traffic. We also share information about your use of our site with our social media, advertising and analytics partners.