Originally Posted by
Darkkin
I received a letter, which at first I thought was junk mail. Turns out it was a letter from an insurance company about a policy my dad had. He died of cancer in early October, and needless to say, no one was surprised or overly broken up about it. (It was my mum and paternal grandparents, who raised us.)
My siblings still carry a lot of resentment toward our father, and who could blame them. He was a seriously flawed individual, but our grandparents more than made up for his shortcomings. They were truly amazing and a huge influence throughout our lives. Because of them, I really don't have a reason to be angry with my dad. In all honesty, I think given his circumstances the best thing he ever did for us was leave alone. He could have made thing difficult, but he didn't. It is a little thing, but it made a difference.
Personally, I felt a little guilty that I wasn't much more than ambivalent about his passing, but I hadn't spoken to him in years at that point. The situation is regrettable and still a little weird.
- D. the T.