I'll pause to think of her often; very often. My granddaughter is 13. Yes, too young for such a thing.
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I'll pause to think of her often; very often. My granddaughter is 13. Yes, too young for such a thing.
When my (then 13-yo) son had brain surgery, it was very scary. The best thing you can do for them is listen and if they ask for anything that you can do/give then put your heart into it and do/give it. What sounds silly or superfluous to you may be a Big Deal to her/them. (A tiny example--my son was reluctant to shower because of the hassle of covering his PICC entry to waterproof it--so a true genius bought him shower gel that was red and in an IV bag dispenser.)
I've had a couple of misdiagnosed medical scares. When I started feeling sorry for myself, I used this trick to slap some sense into my myself:
I imagined that one of my children had the diagnosis. I know I would have wished it was me instead. So I just pretended I got my wish.
I told this to a friend who was dying. She teared, touched my hand, and thanked me. Later, when we were together with others, just before she died, she caught my eye and nodded. I knew why. She had peace.
Hope helpful. Sas
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Overheard:
"...cooch...pooch."
"Your dog?"
"No-ooo...pat pat... this, below the belt."
"Ah, 50..."
Silent commissary.
been to view a flat situated in a nice part of the city...competitions steep but I'm holding out for a bit of luck....
Good news! My friend's sister is OK! :D She's anemic, but the worst is over.
And my wife got released from the hospital and is home and feeling better. Of course tomorrow she gets refills on her meds (now I need a best-seller to pay for everything:mrgreen: - at the price of these meds how can anyone afford to be sick).
I'm in the doghouse and my angel says that she won't contribute to WF any more because I stole her thunder on a thread that I pointed out to her today. Sparks really fly when two Scorpians (not scorpions, but almost) fall out. I've tried apologising to her but I also need to apologise to you lot as you may have lost an interesting contributor. Sorry. She'll come back from the greenhouse eventually no doubt.