A question for the ladies, about SEX - Page 7 - Writers Forum

papertears · 05-19-2008, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Foxee

If I score less than 10 I don't want to know about it.

Yeah isn't that a thought. Guys have subconscious golf cards and pencils ticking off scores about women in built into their brains.

*abstains from making crass stereotypical but funny remark about guys' pencil length*

Remedy · 05-19-2008, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Mike C

Must be quite a talking point at dinner parties. That would definitely be an interesting attribute in female partners, though.

It might be if he ever went to dinner parties, but he's less social than even I am, which means that's never going to happen. He does put on a shirt if he has to go out with either his mother or I (and sometimes in the winter); other than that, nope.

I've seen very few females with muscular torsos. I wasn't attracted, but to each their own.

The Backward OX · 05-19-2008, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by papertears

One of my best friends and I have -never- fooled around and we can even cuddle up half-nekkid in bed if one of us needs comforting--absolutely nothing sexual goes on--I could tell if he were hiding it.

I happen to believe some men are sufficiently skilled at mind control to be able to "turn themselves off" when the need arises. Sheesh, it's more than "happen to believe". That was what I thought when I started this post. Then I stopped, studied some cloud formations for a moment or two, and remembered. I KNOW of one man sufficiently skilled at mind control to be able to "turn himself off" when the need arises.

meldy · 05-19-2008, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Foxee

If I score less than 10 I don't want to know about it.

Ditto

Mike C · 05-20-2008, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by lin

By the way, who cares about a woman's bedroom performance, anyway? It's all about me.

then in your case the scale would run 1: comatose - 10: wide awake, but watching TV.

Raging_Hopeful · 05-20-2008, 12:53 AM

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These are both problems that afflict young people, you see? Once men reach a certain age, they are confident enough to become manly; once women reach a certain age, they are confident enough to become engaging.

I think you hit it on the nose. I was the "crazy girl" in high school but have matured into the engaging girl as an adult. Likewise with boys I know. As they get older, they get more manly.... well, some of them do

lin · 05-20-2008, 12:56 AM

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1: comatose - 10: wide awake, but watching TV.

Oh, like there's a big difference between those two

The Backward OX · 05-20-2008, 01:50 AM

Mike: 1; lin: 0

Mike C · 05-20-2008, 02:18 AM

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Originally Posted by lin

Oh, like there's a big difference between those two

There might be... if you stopped to check.

For foreplay my wife loves me to lick the end of her index finger.

It makes turning pages on the TV guide easier.

seigfried007 · 05-20-2008, 05:40 AM

Try sucking her toes, Mike

Mike C · 05-20-2008, 06:13 AM

I tried that but bed socks taste funny.

papertears · 05-20-2008, 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by seigfried007

Try sucking her toes, Mike

*flashback* had a senior take me on date when I was freshman. he took me back to his dorm room, my roommate was always dropping acid and having sex with one or more guys, so we had to go to his place.

he seemed really sweet. we were in band together, and had been talking/flirting for weeks. so we made out for like 20 minutes, then he laid back on his bed and begged me to suck on his fingers and toes. he said it was the biggest turn on of his life. one finger at a time, in a certain context...sure, thats sexy as hell. not all at once, and not while he just lies there playing dead. ewww.

why do i get weirdos?

should I write a book about my bad dates? EDIT: don't answer that.

Mike C · 05-20-2008, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by papertears

my roommate was always dropping acid and having sex with one or more guys,

My kinda gal.

toccoto · 05-20-2008, 10:44 AM

From what I know about the subject. Most women like a few things. Hand do seem to be a big one. I'm a cellist and that turns on girls. Another one is being a man. A true man. I true man finds respect in a lady but can still treat her like a lady. You know, not let her lead him around by a whip but still open doors for her, and protect her.

I remember one time I was dating a girl and we went to a pub after a walk. We weren't big drinkers but thought it might be nice, anyway a fight broke out and one of the guys got a little close to us. I pushed my hand over my woman a stood up, giving the look as if to say 'Fight if you want but cross this line and you have another set of fists.'

Later she told me it was way sexy.

So from a man's perspective it's kind of like... be a traditional man. You know be the foundation, respect women. True respect is silent, I guess. Seems to be a turn off to constantly remind a woman that they are equal to you.

The Backward OX · 05-20-2008, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by toccoto

Seems to be a turn off to constantly remind a woman that they are equal to you.

Now there is one very interesting thought.

How can a woman want to be turned on and at the same time want to see herself as the equal of the on-turner? Do those equality-seekers perhaps not care about being turned on? It's a puzzle. I'm glad it's all academic for this little black duck.