Author's Note:
What follows was not written by me but belongs to a close friend of mine who read this thread and wanted to give his thoughts.
My father died from pancreatic cancer. For two years, his blood sugar levels fluctuated badly and doctors at Kaiser Hospital assumed he had become diabetic. The treated him with diet and oral medication to control his blood-sugar levels. Treatment failed as his sugar levels continued to fluctuate. My dad admitted to blowing his diet from time to time, so doctors blamed the fluctuations on his own behavior and did nothing but nag him about proper diet. No additional tests were performed.
At the end of the two year period of treatment for "diabetes", dad developed severe abdominal pain. Kaiser doctors scheduled him for a "checkup" and found no obvious cause for the ongoing pain. I called my mom and told her to take dad to a private doctor at my expense. The private doc found his cancer within three hours. It showed up in blood tests that look for specific proteins that are produced by pancreatic cancer. In addition, the primary cancer was well defined in his CAT scan. Unfortunately, the CAT scan also showed that the disease had metastasized to his liver. Both organs were riddled with cancer.
Mom and dad went back to Kaiser for treatment, but they set him up with hospice instead. They offered chemotherapy but gave zero prognosis for cure or even temporary remission. Dad decided there was no sense in wasting the few months he had left with medicine-induced sickness when there was no expectation of getting better.
We kept dad at home until the night he died. At first, he lost a lot of weight but still enough energy to joke with family. He would not have been able to travel. Periods of lucidity gradually diminished while periods of sleep lengthened. Pain medication gradually increased until his talk became slurred and his thought processes began to deteriorate. Toward the end, dad slept twenty hours a day and stopped eating altogether. About a week before he died, he was sleeping in adult diapers and sipping water whenever we could get him to sit up. Mom did a stupid thing one night. She put corn silk down the garbage disposal and it jammed, so she picked up the phone to call a plumber. Dad had been listening to her discussion with my sister and suddenly appeared from the bedroom. He looked terrible, but said, "Goddammit Mary, how many times have I asked you not to put things like that down the disposal. Hang up that phone. We're not gonna waste money on a plumber when I can fix it."
Dad went into the garage for his tools, slipped under the sink, removed the garbage disposal and disassembled it. It took about two minutes to remove the foul. Then, Dad re-installed the repaired garbage disposal, went back to bed and never woke up again. This is a completely true story with no exaggeration. To this day, our family marvels that dad's last activity was to take care of his family . . . as he had for 50 years.
One of my good friends is currently caring for his dad in the final stages of the same cancer. His father's disease was caught early and chemotherapy slowed the progression of the disease. Like my dad, his father lost a ot of weight (25% of his body mass) in the beginning. During chemo, a few more pound dropped off, but after the drug therapy, his dad began adding weight. His energy level improved and my friend was actually able to take his father on a couple camping/fishing trips. Metastasis seems to be the key to the rapid health drop off with pancreatic cancer. Once the cancer shows up in another location like the liver or brain, death is imminent. My buddy's dad still has no metastasis and doctors are surprised that he's lived a year and a half longer than originally expected.
My point in comparing pancreatic cancer in two people is to give you a real life picture of the possibilities. By the way, it is common for doctors to mis-diagnose pancreatic cancer as diabetes in early stages. My own internist told me if I ever develop symptoms of diabetes, he will automatically order the blood tests to rule out pancreatic cancer. I asked him why Kaiser didn't do that with my dad and he said, the chance of finding pancreatic cancer in people showing early diabetes, is less than one percent. As a result, it is not cost-effective to run all those extra tests when the vast majority of the time such symptoms are, in fact, diabetes.
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