What Is happening to me?? - Writers Forum

RiderOnTheStorm · 08-21-2007, 10:25 AM

Yesterday I stopped at a taco bell to get something to eat and when I got there I saw the most beautiful gal I've ever seen. She was the cashier. I got the same feeling I used to get in school, I felt like a child again! She smiled at me a couple of times but I didn't say anything to her. After she took my order I sat on a table purposely pointing on her direction so that I could look at her while I put act together.

I wasn't able to eat or anything, she really flipped my world upside down. After I finished playing with my food I decided that I was going to leave her a note on top of my table, she had seen where I was sitting so I knew for sure that she would know who was it from. So I left it there and headed out.

I have not been able to stop thinking of her, I couldn't sleep last night and I lost my appetite. wtf... it is ridiculous... I only spoke with her for about 2 minutes and that was it!

She has not emailed me yet and I wonder if she ever got my note... if she is interested or not. I don't know if I should go back there and talk to her; I wouldn't know what to say. What are you supposed to say to someone at a fast food anyway?? I would not like to come off as a weirdo or something.

This sucks and I don't know what to do...

Azmakna · 08-21-2007, 11:13 AM

next time you are there order two lots of food, sit down for a while looking around and checking the time. make sure she sees you doing this. drink your drink and go for another one. ask her if she's seen a (describe the waitress) at all, when she says no look happy. tell her that you had left an email on the table and hoped (describe the waitress) would turn up. then suggest to her that perhaps you should be more direct next time. by now you should have been able to assess whether she was interested or not. if she looks like she is, ask her if she fancies a drink later on (hopefully she's smiling by now) the answer will be either yes or no. if she says yes, you've cracked it, if she says no, ask her if perhaps you could have a drink with her some other time... this is make or break time! if she says yes, again you've cracked it, if she says no, then say 'was it my Email that put you off?' from here it's a matter of hope and playing it cool.

RiderOnTheStorm · 08-21-2007, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Azmakna

next time you are there order two lots of food, sit down for a while looking around and checking the time. make sure she sees you doing this. drink your drink and go for another one. ask her if she's seen a (describe the waitress) at all, when she says no look happy. tell her that you had left an email on the table and hoped (describe the waitress) would turn up. then suggest to her that perhaps you should be more direct next time. by now you should have been able to assess whether she was interested or not. if she looks like she is, ask her if she fancies a drink later on (hopefully she's smiling by now) the answer will be either yes or no. if she says yes, you've cracked it, if she says no, ask her if perhaps you could have a drink with her some other time... this is make or break time! if she says yes, again you've cracked it, if she says no, then say 'was it my Email that put you off?' from here it's a matter of hope and playing it cool.

That might work, I like the approach

I wasn't sure how to approach her without coming across as a stalker hehe

thanks.

Baron · 08-21-2007, 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Azmakna

next time you are there order two lots of food, sit down for a while looking around and checking the time. make sure she sees you doing this. drink your drink and go for another one. ask her if she's seen a (describe the waitress) at all, when she says no look happy. tell her that you had left an email on the table and hoped (describe the waitress) would turn up. then suggest to her that perhaps you should be more direct next time. by now you should have been able to assess whether she was interested or not. if she looks like she is, ask her if she fancies a drink later on (hopefully she's smiling by now) the answer will be either yes or no. if she says yes, you've cracked it, if she says no, ask her if perhaps you could have a drink with her some other time... this is make or break time! if she says yes, again you've cracked it, if she says no, then say 'was it my Email that put you off?' from here it's a matter of hope and playing it cool.

And if all falls flat you leave with a very full stomach.

Der_Parvenu_Meister · 08-21-2007, 08:09 PM

God I dont want to alarm you or anything but I heard of a guy who had the exact same sudden feelings and ended up resorting to RAPE.

But I'm sure you'll be fine.

Hodge · 08-21-2007, 08:11 PM

No you didn't, because rape is a crime of power and control, not of sexual attraction.

Der_Parvenu_Meister · 08-21-2007, 08:54 PM

You're such a virgin.

And yeah, Rider, why dont you just ask her out?

ClancyBoy · 08-21-2007, 09:10 PM

The issue, as I see it, is that you referred to her as a "gal."

This makes you at least fifty years old. You should date people your own age, Mr. Creepmeister.

RiderOnTheStorm · 08-21-2007, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Baron

And if all falls flat you leave with a very full stomach.

haha that's for sure

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God I dont want to alarm you or anything but I heard of a guy who had the exact same sudden feelings and ended up resorting to RAPE.

But I'm sure you'll be fine.

I don't think so.

The issue, as I see it, is that you referred to her as a "gal."

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This makes you at least fifty years old. You should date people your own age, Mr. Creepmeister.

does it sound outdated?

I'm actually 21.

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And yeah, Rider, why dont you just ask her out?

I will, I just don't want to screw this up

Drzava · 08-21-2007, 09:54 PM

Ask if you can buy her taco for 99 cents.